This goes to the children who live in one home either adopted or biologically born to the parents existing in these families. As many of us well know that we didn’t choose the vessels that had to transport us here on the planet called earth but what I have discovered is that we had to come and fulfill the purpose that God has for us. God sees you, knows you by name and he has seen generations battling things that have taken them out. Without knowledge people are destroyed Hosea 4:6, but the solution is with you since Jesus died and rose again from death. Guess what the destruction in families is bringing them down and now it’s us children who have to stand against these stumbling blocks so that we move every mountain. Remember we are not going to be able to move these mountains if we are fighting a mongest each other. One can put up thousand but two can put out more and three beyond. That where the saying came thus two heads are better than one. Let’s have compassion for our parents by still honoring them regardless of the wrong parental means they used in on us like I described in parents to parents that as a great couple of God revealed to many of us that they raised their children according to their different personalities because God is creative and can decide to make most of us different but live or come through the same people. It’s all about revelation after having a strong and committed relation with Jesus that God the holy spirit orders your steps right. Sometimes our pain of course comes from our parents in most cases. For example, Rebecca Stirling Jacob his son against his own brother Esau but it was Esau’s decision to forgive Jacob to make things right. Jacob’s love for Rachael made him fall in love more with joseph caused him to pick unintentionally on his brother’s and this opened their wounds for them to want him murdered and later resort to selling him in slavery, but later joseph made the decision to forgive them. King David’s decision to keep quiet about the rape of his daughter and him not taking action made Absalom take it up to himself to punish his half-brother for this crime. And later it was Absolom’s decisions that led him to be killed. Furthermore, God has great things for everyone but he said that seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and other things will be added unto you. Our parents may have favored one child and forget the other but just know he has a destiny for you and its not to fight against your brothers but living in peace with them while walking in your God ordain purpose. Being each other’s cheering team is wise because if Cain had been this way for his brother he would have not killed his brother but asked Abel how he did to please God . God even asked Cain if you right wouldn’t I accept you? I will also say here that let no one’s actions determine your reaction. Looking for information as a family to better generations after you, let everyone work on a particular something and hold each other accountable for improvement. someone said God purposed us to leave an inheritance for their children, And I believe that thriving and healing is an inheritance for the next generation.
Furthermore, it’s up to you to start a relationship with God and yourself. but remember what the situation is we have to honor our father and mother because if we don’t, our relationship with God is compromised. Ignore what you parents say about you in order to bring you down. Just know you are a child of God and nothing can hinder your success if you have a true relationship with Jesus Christ through God the holy spirit. The purpose is still on schedule and God has got you.