MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT PEOPLE.

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EVERYONE IN THE WORLD HATES ME.

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Most cases our mind plays tricks on us if we over think something. The way we analyse a problem is not the same way we did before the last time you thought about it. Many times the devil brings up scenerios  in our heads to knock us off the cliff of fear our thoughts led us to. Who has ever had a phrase that says we receive back what we pour into the world. Recognise your attitude. God gave me a chance to work in a customer care service  place where I had to work with residents of that particular community and we really needed to say hullo to them which made the atmosphere friendly so that if they got a problem, they could easily approach the desk for help. A few of them never responded,  others responded   all the time, the other lot responded whenever they had visitors or parents over to impress (you know the saying see how they treat other people)or it was a good day for them. Now those who never responded I made sure respected their way of living but I helped them whenever they asked for help. But I noticed that they had facial expressions of people whom I knew before that said everyone hates me. Most cases I notice my attitude around people is what I get back from them. Put it in yourself to start off by daily saying hullo to people regardless of who they are to you as long as you see them daily and make up your mind to ignore the bad and good stories you heard about them and if they hurt you pray for them the best anyone could ask for and say hullo in the morning or the next time you meet them. After this, do you think the world still hates you?

AM BETTER THAN THEM

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Ok we are all guilty of this. Everyone has been in a society or among people and you think to yourself atleast am somewhere either career wise, financial status wise, academically, health wise. We all have this desire to be better than we were yesterday but it comes to going to fur to selfishly not depend on the rest of the world because you feel people are below your legeau.   The truth is that sometime we get blessed earlier than other people sometimes because we did something right in the eyes of God or something bad to keep yourself from pain of any sort . I believe as a Christian that times and seasons are in the Palm of God almighty. If you were blessed by God before others its your time to help others grow the way God requires them to grow and then bless them. we all have to encourage eachother in the lord sothat we donot lagg behind in our spiritual growth.And no man is an island , we live to help eachother. There a phrase that says five figures on the Palm are all levelled differently for a reason. If neyaman in the old testament dispised the advise of the servant girl he wouldn’t have gotten the healing of leprosy.

 

Do they ever have problems?

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Who even thinks like this? Ok for me it has always been the other way round like will their problems ever end but when I came a cross this misconception I was taken aback to that scripture where Jesus said in life you have many tribulation but take heart because I have won. Maybe the person you see is always in good spirits is leaning onto this scripture  and trust what Jesus said that everything works together for good especially for those who trust in the lord. We all need to equip ourselves in obidience with the strategies or principles that jesuschrist left us with.

Why are they full of themselves?

Ok, who has ever thought this about another person?
And for those who are still scratching their heads about this, it means why are they so proud like nothing can take them down. Seeming self-satisfying. Any way everyone is trying to hide something sothat they can keep going forward both in the good times and the bad times . What keeps you hanging in their and does it show from the inside out. What traits on the outside have you seen people show that really seem to you that this is what keeps him or her going. Moreover sometimes our outward appearance can be very aggressive that people draw away from you or towards you for the wrong reason. I will share that there many times I failed to say hullo to people around me portraying a serious face of someone who doesn’t like people who talk a lot but hiding the fact that I really donot know what they are talking about and they might want me to contribute to the topic and I will end up embarrassing myself. Others might exposure your true financial worth and people will start looking down on you and you avoid that and so many other reasons.

They are too far gone.
Have you ever seen some one who is so lost in a habit or behaviour pattern, poverty, illness, or financial crisis and think to yourself  it will take eternity for this one to be redeemed. So many of us stay away from people simply with that misconception because you see nothing is left of this person. Jesus christ said with people its impossible but with God its possible. For sure here on earth we are insrtruments that God the holy spirit plays sothat other people can hear and be resuscitate . God just wants us to be around for these people like he said in the book of Mathew 25:35-37. Here on earth we co exist to mainly look after each other in a good way until Jesus second coming.

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People do not appreciate.
For this one I will be very honest to some extent its true and others not true. I have often heard stories about this among people. But I will say there is a reason behind everyone’s action and maybe if we really want to get angry ask these people. Sometimes people endure a lot from people helping them and most cases leave half way and later find themselves. I won’t say they do the right thing but there is another reason why Jesus emphasized that when your right hand is giving your left hand shouldn’t know apart from appearances maybe do not expect anything in return because though people give good things God can go further and exceed your expectations. So don’t stop helping and donot stop your good gestures God is sees and has rewards. The scriptures say if somebody takes your shirt, give them your coat too.

They know me well. What!!! Apart from God who knew you before you were formed in your mother’s womb and still surprising Christians still today by revealing to us what he really created us to do in this life sothat we can live fulfilled. So many Christians are changing careers because currently they feel empty whenever they do this or that profession regardless of the six figures it brings in. Those people just know what the side effects of what the world has turned you into. But come into the a relationship with our lord jesu2and he will do some panel bitting , repairing and you will find out even you you didn’t know you.

 

I can change them. What!!!
You think so? So many of us have thrown ourselves into people’s lives and their effects from what the world has done to them rub onto us and we leave them angry yet if you leave the creation work to God and leave him to place us where he really and with whom he wants us to be with and bring along people  with whom we will walk with and from without adversity because there are time and season with everyone and sometimes people are meant to stay others are meant to leave in peace but we misinterpret the season and get angry at people leaving.

 

They know what they are doing.
and let the word Of God  to a lamp unto our feet, he really surprises me on every level , I just need to obey and live in his principles and let him work his way through. Do not get angry saying they never helped me or you were not there yet I needed you. God said seek the kingdom of God and everything will be added unto you. People we want to lean on just give us or share what God has helped them with which is not bad but the phrase that says there is everything for everyone is true. I heard the stories that the grave is the richest place  because so many people died with uncomplished dreams.this is just because they looked to the wrong source while here on earth. Do not hate anyone who is not helping you or envy them.