Parents make sure you are walking in your God given purposes and help your children discover theirs.
By the time you are walking in the statement have written above means that you have discovered healing. By this I mean your relationship with God is in the fear of God mode. I emphasize the relationship with God because he is the perfect person to order our steps through God the holy spirit. Without him we live in competition, backlash. Just know, our lives are unique and we do not have to be another person to be ourselves. Now when we become responsible for another life thus God entrusts us with our children however shape or form or color, they come in. he just says trust me. He is the potter and by the time he is finished, we are beautiful. Sometimes your children will have to continue from where you will stop or jump in on the journey of the purpose you are pursuing and other children are on different route because God has a different strategy to harvest the souls in the world. Some children take a different God ordained route and parents don’t have to get angry. Many children go off course not because their parents never taught them well but because the devil is doing what only he does best that is to steal, kill and destroy. Some children survive it because they built their houses on the rock Jesus Christ and not on sand but others who are fleshly are destroyed because they also do not take time to know the almighty God on a personal level but take heart with praying parents the scriptures say that he works everything together for our good. As parents we don’t know what our children will come here on earth with either from us e.g. illness or somebody harms them during birth or in their journey of growth but as parents we need to be by them through thick or thin because the world out there is a battle field it owes all of us nothing. If they can’t run back into your comfort, knowledge, counsel, replenishment, where will they go when they need a break or for advice when times become hard. You have to find healing if your children came along when you were hurt because even at 40 they need a memory of the love or words that gave them courage and what kept them keeping on.
Some parts of the world in the past generations they said it took a village to raise a child. This meant that people around you helped you whenever you were short in something you needed to raise your children and push forward your child either financially or discipline wise. It’s very funny that an adult never reported a child he or she found doing wrong rather they disciplined them immediately and this kept children in respect of each and every one and they knew that someone was watching. Moreover, when it came to disciplining with words, when one older man or woman met a younger person anywhere with wrong information, they immediately imparted in them wisdom and if it needed thorough correction, they did it and they informed the parents after that and this branded these children to be better people.
What are you doing with your children?
Engaging children in different sectors came later in life depending on the age. Skills were imparted and all parents tried to engage their children in different activities so that they found their skill. Now here I further give abroad view of God the father. He says he knew us before we were formed in our mother’s wombs. He knows the hairs on each of our heads. Since God is a creative person, I doubt if he created us similar because this world would be boring. Parents should know that as God brought them children through their wombs these children on rear occasions have similar traits. They might have similar purposes but carrying them out is different. Just I had said that one great man of God said that he was raise his children in the similar manner and it was not working until his wife opened his eyes and asked him to observe each of them closely and this helped raise their children because strategy for each child changed.
what do you think of your child?
